ugh
blecch. In my ranys about the people that have been disappearing and checking out in our lives, I probably should have mentioned that plenty of folks are the same as always and are always there for us and have adapted and changed to fit the "new us" perfectly. Some are even better than ever! My intent was not to upset anyone or point fingers, I am just looking for input about what eveyone sees differently about us, if anything. I didn' want it to be combative, or insulting, or hurtful, or anything.
Some mental ramblings are best left off of a general blog, and certainly should not be in print, unless the author can better explain what he really means.
Sorry everyone for the uncomfortableness, that was not my intention.