I feel you on the work environment, Jon.  Those of us still left have the foxhole/gallows mentality.  "Dibs on your shit" has become both an inside joke and a sad truthism.  
Just in case I was a total douchebag and didn't post this before (I'm really losing my mind with these 12-16 hour days.. life is a total blur).. Bennett was born the day before my birthday, 3/21/09 and has been keeping Michelle and I up at all hours of the night.  It's kind of funny, you think you remember what it was like and I suppose on some level it's easier the second time around.. but it really is RELENTLESS the non-stop feeding, diapers, feeding, diapers.  And here I am bitching and I'm not even the food-producing parent.  Three weeks into this, he's finally starting to sleep in longer chunks at night, so that's good.
Anyhow, off to work I go.  Weeee....